Wednesday:
A friend asked me to lunch. She reached out to me because she thought she hurt my feelings a few weeks ago and wanted to make sure everything was fine between us. I was so glad that she felt like she could talk to me about this and get it resolved. It made me smile to know that she valued our friendship enough to straighten things out.
I went to get my oil changed following lunch and a valvoline employee made me smile. I have a "resting bitch face" so he thought I was unhappy. He starting joking around with me telling me I needed to smile. No frowns! lol He was funny and he succeeded in making me smile.
Thursday:
The girl I care for returned home from being out of town for medical reasons for 10 days so I went to her house in the morning to decorate the house.. The family loved it and thanked me. I made them smile and in return it made me smile as well.
I was sent to a new case for work and I met an incredible family. A few months ago, a terrible tragedy stuck this family and their lives changed forever. I was so impressed by their faith and determination to carry on. They are so sweet and nice. After experiencing such loss, it is easy to turn on God and become bitter to the world. This family refuses to be broken. The mother even told me "I've lost everything, I can't lose God too". Wow. I feel like this woman may be the most inspirational person I have ever met. While this situation doesn't make me smile as I would not wish this to happen to my worst enemy, it makes me feel very blessed to have a job in which I can meet so many extraordinary people. Extraordinary people that motivate me to be a better person and force me to put the little things in life into perspective. Please pray for this family as their difficulties are far from over. After meeting them, I know it will be a long and difficult road but I also know that if anyone can make it through this, it will be this family.
Friday, June 26, 2015
Saturday, June 20, 2015
A long day of work
Today I worked a 14 hour shift. Normally, I have to turn down these lengthy shifts because I have two dogs at home that have to be let out. However, I really wanted to do the shift because my hours are cut during the summer so I try to get as many shifts in as I can. So my sister stepped up, yet again, to watch the dogs so I could work this shift.
I bought the client a lego star wars set that he has been wanting and he was very happy. He thanked me numerous times without being told! That is a big deal for him! lol This also made me smile to know that he was enjoying his gift.
When I returned home the bathroom was clean! and there was a watermelon cake waiting for me! Thanks sis!!
Who did you make smile today?
I bought the client a lego star wars set that he has been wanting and he was very happy. He thanked me numerous times without being told! That is a big deal for him! lol This also made me smile to know that he was enjoying his gift.
When I returned home the bathroom was clean! and there was a watermelon cake waiting for me! Thanks sis!!
Who did you make smile today?
Friday, June 19, 2015
Smiles in Cincinatti
For the last few days I've been in Cincinnati to be there for the girl I care for during one of her numerous surgeries. Here are the smiles during the trip:
-in order to be there my sister agreed to watch my dogs for me. I'm very grateful for her offering to this for me as it saves me money and stress!
-her parents allowing me to be there during these important surgeries
-a family friend allowed us all to stay at there house to save money on a hotel
-her dad bought me a milkshake and her mom cooked me dinner last night
-i brought a gift for the girl for always being so brave
-yesterday I picked up medication for the girl and brought back lunch for her parents
-CVS was crazy busy and the employees were looking stressed. I told the cashier I hope it slows down and to have a good day
-At Kroger, the cashier was so friendly he made me smile just watching him. He truly loves his job and people. He is a person that can make people smile by just being in their presence
-the grandparents of the little girl bought the family a humidifier for her room at night to help prevent bleeding from any dryness
-the mom was up most of the night suctioning the girl so when I woke up this morning the mom was able to get some good sleep for a few hours while I watched her daughter
It is great to see so many people support one another in a time of need.
Who did you make smile today?
-in order to be there my sister agreed to watch my dogs for me. I'm very grateful for her offering to this for me as it saves me money and stress!
-her parents allowing me to be there during these important surgeries
-a family friend allowed us all to stay at there house to save money on a hotel
-her dad bought me a milkshake and her mom cooked me dinner last night
-i brought a gift for the girl for always being so brave
-yesterday I picked up medication for the girl and brought back lunch for her parents
-CVS was crazy busy and the employees were looking stressed. I told the cashier I hope it slows down and to have a good day
-At Kroger, the cashier was so friendly he made me smile just watching him. He truly loves his job and people. He is a person that can make people smile by just being in their presence
-the grandparents of the little girl bought the family a humidifier for her room at night to help prevent bleeding from any dryness
-the mom was up most of the night suctioning the girl so when I woke up this morning the mom was able to get some good sleep for a few hours while I watched her daughter
It is great to see so many people support one another in a time of need.
Who did you make smile today?
Saturday, June 13, 2015
Smiles even in the darkest of times
I'm sorry for my blog hiatus. I had several difficult situations going on in my life recently. Even through my dark times, while I did not outwardly smile, many people still made my heart a little lighter during it all.
In May of 2014, I rescued an abused dog, Axle, that was unable to be adopted. Over this past year, I have worked extensively to rehab this dog to free him from his anxiety. I spent thousands of dollars on behavior modification training, ran him on a treadmill every day, gave him mentally stimulating toys and feeders, and eventually put him on anti anxiety medication. After a recent bite to the neighbor's ankle and an attack on one of the other dogs in my home, I had to concede that my efforts were simply not enough to rid him of his demons. Struggling with such intense anxiety was affecting his quality of life. He was constantly panting, incessantly licking, and unable to sit still for more than two minutes at a time. I had to make the very difficult decision to humanely euthanize him. While this was one of the worst experiences of my life, there were so many supportive people to help me get through this. Here are some smile-worthy kindness that shined through the darkness in my life:
-My older sister called everyday to give me support and encouragement
-A friend allowed me to take Axle in her fenced in yard the morning of the appointment to allow him to run free
-My twin sister helped me make paw prints. After my dog was gone, she gave me a very nice card and a gift from Axle. She and my mom were also there to hug me when I was crying inconsolably following the appointment
-The veterinarian made the experience as easy as possible for me. She gave me many hugs and words of comfort. The vet also made a collage of pictures of him for me to take home
-Many of my friends and family sent me messages and texts of support
-My mom came over to drive me to the vet. She also went into the room with me. It meant a lot to not have to go through it alone.
-Many of you know that I work in home care for a little girl with several medical needs. The day after putting Axle down, the family took me on a surprise trip to the zoo during my shift.
While the situation was still a very painful experience, knowing that so many people cared enough to help me get through it, made it a little more bearable.
In May of 2014, I rescued an abused dog, Axle, that was unable to be adopted. Over this past year, I have worked extensively to rehab this dog to free him from his anxiety. I spent thousands of dollars on behavior modification training, ran him on a treadmill every day, gave him mentally stimulating toys and feeders, and eventually put him on anti anxiety medication. After a recent bite to the neighbor's ankle and an attack on one of the other dogs in my home, I had to concede that my efforts were simply not enough to rid him of his demons. Struggling with such intense anxiety was affecting his quality of life. He was constantly panting, incessantly licking, and unable to sit still for more than two minutes at a time. I had to make the very difficult decision to humanely euthanize him. While this was one of the worst experiences of my life, there were so many supportive people to help me get through this. Here are some smile-worthy kindness that shined through the darkness in my life:
-My older sister called everyday to give me support and encouragement
-A friend allowed me to take Axle in her fenced in yard the morning of the appointment to allow him to run free
-My twin sister helped me make paw prints. After my dog was gone, she gave me a very nice card and a gift from Axle. She and my mom were also there to hug me when I was crying inconsolably following the appointment
-The veterinarian made the experience as easy as possible for me. She gave me many hugs and words of comfort. The vet also made a collage of pictures of him for me to take home
-Many of my friends and family sent me messages and texts of support
-My mom came over to drive me to the vet. She also went into the room with me. It meant a lot to not have to go through it alone.
-Many of you know that I work in home care for a little girl with several medical needs. The day after putting Axle down, the family took me on a surprise trip to the zoo during my shift.
While the situation was still a very painful experience, knowing that so many people cared enough to help me get through it, made it a little more bearable.
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